To do child support or not to child support
To do child support or not to child support
That is a hard question to answer for most co-parenting, parents. I personally struggled with decision. It was really hard given I had been doing it alone for so long trying to prove I didn't need their help. Not to mention they weren't trying to help me at all. What helped me decided to go forth with it was the fact I realized I was not at a point where I could take care of them financially by myself. If you choose to go this route I would like to warn you this can be emotional and bring up things you may not have known you were feeling. That is ok. If possible have someone you can talk/vent to, to help you with anything that could come up. If you choose not to take out child support for your child this can be an equally emotional time. Thinking about the past and how unfair it is that your doing this alone. You can also feel the sadness of your child/ future feelings your child might have. I'm telling you breathing through it support is key. I know some moms don't have support or anyone to talk to if that is the case you can talk to a therapist or send me an email at mental.beaut@gmail.com I will do my best to respond to anyone who needs a little support or get you information to do so. Remeber no matter what you choose to do you are enough.